Advices on dating older woman
The best thing to do is to get your wonderful girl – beautiful…and all the rest, and run away with her, out of the scene and live a normal quite life.
So I took option two: Most of the beautiful girls I’d met in London were foreign.
At that point, I really looked at things and couldn’t face going back into the club scene full time.
I had a few options: Fashion photographer, model agency booker, (or even a strip club barman ;-)) these kinds of guys have an endless supply of hot girls in front of them.
I remember going to the same London night club (China White is the name, in case you were wondering) seven nights a week.If you are with your girl and then you both score a really great chick and you give her 80% of the attention, or your girl just knows you are very attracted to her, that doesn’t play well.She can’t have respect for herself, love you, and be cool with that…and how sustainable is this, what happens when you guys get a little older? You either have to be a cold motherfucka who doesn’t care, or you will get bogged down in the stresses of managing this complicated situation.It wasn’t 100% satisfying and the 24/7 club life wasn’t something I wanted to continue so intensely as I got into my thirties…but lots of fun times and great memories ;-) After a few months I did find a nice girl.
We dated for 9 months, I stopped going to clubs, and she was the best girlfriend I’d had so far, but things weren’t quite right for the long-term and we split up.
There was some dissatisfaction, but I mean look at the difference: I used to be depressed, and have issues galore.