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30-Jul-2017 10:51

Our over 50 dating service is designed to help you make meaningful connections; all of our members are here looking for long-lasting love and companionship.For those of us looking to start dating again over the age of 50 it can be a daunting prospect.For the last few months, I have been seeing a chef my age I met on the site. Before we even met, she admitted she’d come to snoop through the windows of my house to check I was above board. The next day I changed my profile to read ‘widowed a few months ago’.I didn’t want to make a big deal of it, but I hoped a brief summary of my marital status would explain my presence online.We’ve all heard about the bad behaviour of men who date online: the married ones just out for casual sex, the ‘successful businessmen’ who turn out to be minicab drivers and the ‘spontaneous risk takers’ who are, in truth, crashing bores.Carleton Smith, 55, is a divorced private chef from Chilham, Kent. But, by that point, I’d been internet dating for two years and had been told one lie too many. I began online dating six months after my wife Christabel and I separated five years ago.I also hoped, selfishly, it would persuade my dates that I wasn’t to blame for my single status; that there was a legitimate, if tragic, reason.Kate had suffered a sudden brain haemorrhage a year earlier in September 2006.

Otherwise, they seem to be looking for a replica of their last relationship. I spend so much time listening to how wonderful their recently dead husbands are, I end up feeling inadequate.

We enjoy regular Sunday lunches together and if there’s someone I’m considering introducing our sons to, Christabel — who’s been with a new boyfriend for the past two years — will meet her first. But I was torn between spending time with Alison and seeing my boys.

After two years, she ended it, saying she didn’t feel like a big enough part of my life.

Four dates have ended up in bed; three after just one date.

The women have all made the first move: I’m a gentleman and would never initiate sex, although I suspect they were only doing so to win my affection.

When I wasn’t ignored, it often felt as if I were on a production line.